I was drawing in http://cunkfunt.tumblr.com/ style. I plan to do it more later on it was fun :3
This is how I feel lately
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justanotherfinalfantasyfangirl:
How can someone stand behind abortion, when you have a life inside of you that God created for you? How can you say that this life isn’t worth it? If you can’t take care of the baby for whatever circumstances than there is always adoption available to couples who can’t conceive, but still want the joy of being parents. OPEN YOUR EYES! God has bigger plans for us all that we don’t even realize the picture.
Excuse me but it appears your baby is actually upside down
Did you take Sex Ed freshman year because babies come out headfirstHi, OP! As someone who was given up for adoption, allow me to call bullshit on your little post there! You see, when I was adopted, I was a white-skinned, healthy, neurotypical infant, which basically put me at the top of the list, right underneath white-skinned, healthy, neurotypical MALE infants! There’s only one kind of infant people wanted to adopt more than me! I was SOOO lucky! But if you actually bothered to look at the information readily available on the interwebs, you would be aware that the majority of people who are forced to rely on abortion for family planning are poor people and people of color. Of course, those two demographics intersect, thanks to the institutionalized racism of our society! Neat huh?!
Of course, even babies of color are not in high demand with couples looking to adopt. Many who do want to adopt outside their race choose to go outside the country, where laws are less strict and the process is often less expensive. Of course, most of the infants adopted this way are obtained in unscrupulous fashion, but who cares about that when you’re saving a little Korean or African baby from the horrible fate of growing up in Korea or Africa??? And all those children who have birth defects, are born with diseases or disabilities, or have other issues… WELL. Who wants to invest that kind of expense and time? Why would you adopt someone broken, LOLOL?!
Granted, there are some wonderful people who understand the system a little better, and make it a point to try and give POC and disabled children a good home. But they make up a very small fraction of potential adopters! This difference in supply and demand leaves a lot of children stuck in the foster system, where their chances of being adopted diminish with every passing year, and their chances of being physically or sexually abused INCREASE! Isn’t that wonderful?
And of course, we haven’t even talked about the person who is giving birth to the baby! I know you probably think pregnancy is a wonderful, happy time, and for some people it is, but it is also one of the greatest health risks a person can take. I love my son very much, and from the day I found out I was pregnant with him, I wanted him! But I also nearly died giving birth to him. You see, I had pre-eclampsia, the most commonly fatal birth complication in the world. My blood pressure was 180 over 130! At twenty-two years old, I was actually headed for a stroke, hah hah! How funny is that? And all it took was missing a single pre-natal appointment during which my blood pressure rose to dangerous levels and my body tried to kill both me and my son. Those seizures sure were fun, as was the emergency c-section performed without anesthetic! And being chained down while the operation was performed, because I was delirious and wouldn’t stop trying to fight off the doctors, that was a BLAST! It was great for my husband too, since he almost lost his wife and child in just forty-five minutes. You can imagine how thrilled he is at the prospect of me ever getting pregnant again. Babies are certainly cute, but pregnancy can have massive health complications, and I know it’s such a bummer, but they are PERMANENT. :( My abdominal muscles never recovered from being hacked through with a scalpel, and the flood of hormones caused by late pregnancy have changed things from heartburn (never used to have it, now, all the time!) to my emotional reactions (I cry when I see pictures of kittens now. I used to be tough). These are changes I did not ask for, cannot control, and cannot fix! And many people go through worse! I know, right? Unbelievable, but go look up the word ‘episiotomy’ and then look up ‘birth rape’ and I’m afraid you’ll find some stuff that just isn’t very shiny. Plus, the studies actually show that people who carry a baby to term, give birth, then give it up for adoption suffer HIGHER rates of post-pregnancy complications like post-partum depression and post-partum psychosis, general depression, and other mental health issues. Adoption actually isn’t good for the person giving birth at all!
I’m afraid the picture you chose to use there is also pretty disingenuous. I know, I know, it seems like nitpicking. I’m not trying to be mean! :( But that picture shows a fully developed, viable infant, and most abortions are performed when the fetus isn’t even a fetus - it’s a blastocyst. That’s just a clump of cells. Seriously! You can totally find pictures on the interwebs and they’re not even gross, LOLOL! Later-term abortions are usually performed because of health complications, though some of our intrepid state legislators are trying to change all that! They care so much about people who are pregnant, you see, that they want to force them to carry dead or dying fetuses inside them until their body either becomes infected while it rots in their tummies (this is called sepsis, and it makes people very sick, and can even kill them!), or forces it out naturally in a gush of blood and fluids! Isn’t that so caring of them? I’m so glad they’re around to make those decisions for me! And if a pregnant person is not allowed to terminate an unviable fetus, in some states, they have to carry the child to term, give birth to it, and then watch it die in their arms because its lungs weren’t developed, or its brain formed outside its skull, or any of a million possible birth defects that will kill you just as quick as lickity-split! Isn’t that wild?! Of course, these people go through terrible grief, and as I mentioned, some of them may get sick and die from not being able to abort dead or dying fetuses. But I guess that’s just A-okay with you, huh?
Basically, I think before you suggest adoption as a universal alternative, you should actually go do some research on adoption. And before you condemn abortion, you should do some research on abortions - not the stuff your church is giving you, the stuff the real doctors are saying. Go to Planned Parenthood (if they haven’t all been closed down, ROFLMAO!) and request whatever information they have on the process, the statistics of who has abortions and why… and actually, all of that is on the interwebs! Isn’t technology AMAZING?
And in closing, since I’ve been asked this question many times and I know it’s coming? Yes, I realize I am here talking to you because I was not aborted. But the thing is, if my mother had chosen abortion, I wouldn’t know the difference, so it wouldn’t matter to me. And if she decided that choice was best for her, then that choice would have been best for her, and I would never want to take that choice away from her. As it is, since I was given up for adoption, and since I have seen the statistics on how badly people who give their children up for adoption suffer, I have spent much of my adult life worrying about her, whether she’s healthy, whether she’s okay, and feeling that if she did suffer from any of the common post-birth symptoms, it is at least partially my fault, even though she made that decision on her own. Which is silly, I know, but at some point, all children have to stare down the consequences of their parents’ having them. For some, that’s poverty. For others, a life-time of their parents struggling to treat and care for a severe illness or disability. For others, it’s wondering if their mother ever got over giving them away, and wishing you could reach out and assure her that it’s okay, she doesn’t have to be haunted.
May your birth control never fail!
This is the greatest rant I have ever seen.
Ever.
have i already reblogged this?
i’m just going to reblog this
I only have one thing to add.
Is there a single person in the world who honestly ‘stands’ for an abortion?
Hear me out here, alright?
Is there a single human being that actually says, “Hm, I just had an act of intimacy with someone I love enough to give a part of myself to, but I feel like getting stuck up my vagina and killing something that is growing inside me because I am a horrible person and I like knowing I killed something that may one day become a human being! LOL, and then I’ll do it AGAIN, because I am such a terrible person!”
No. No one actually stands ‘for’ abortions. They stand for the right to /chose/ for themselves if they need to have one in order to continue living a healthy life. It’s actually sometimes more often, “Oh no! My partner and I accidentally had unprotected sex, and I feel as though I am not ready to take care of a child! I am only 23, and I am not ready to settle down to give a child a healthy, happy life. I also don’t want my child to be given up to a vicious system that is adoption. I think I may have to have an abortion, even though I have done everything I could to try not to get pregnant. Right now, it is a small bundle of cells without a heartbeat. It is my choice, and maybe someday, I will be ready to take care of a child, but right now, I am not.”
Or sometimes, it’s, “I was raped. I am a girl of sixteen. I don’t want to have to drop out of school to have a child, when I myself am a child too. On top of that, this pregnancy was forced onto me. I am not ready, I don’t want this. Get the fetus out of me, please, so that I may go through my therapy to try and get over the trauma of being raped without having to worry about taking care of a child as well.”
Or even, “I have an STD that is passed on through pregnancy. I got it from when I was younger, and did not monitor my sexual partner’s history of STD’s. My partner knows this, and his condom broke. He might have an STD now, but he is willing to stay by my side. But we both agree we should not force it onto a child as well. I need an abortion because the child would live an unhappy, sickly life, and I don’t want that for a child, especially not my own.”
And, there is something I need to say.
Leave religion out of this. It has no place in the bedroom, nor in a woman’s vagina. God gave us brains so that we could chose for ourselves what would make us happy. If a woman needs to have an abortion for whatever reason, it’s not as though he is going to strike her down with lightening, not if he loves us unconditionally. And besides, we are giving those children back to God, where he can love them with everything where we sometimes might not be able to. I think that is the only way it can be said. Those children shouldn’t have to suffer for no reason other than the fact the mother could not get an abortion. So think about that.
If you believe abortion is wrong, don’t get one. Just don’t try to take everyone else’s god-given right to CHOOSE FOR THEMSELVES WHAT THEY NEED TO DO TO REMAIN HEALTHY AND HAPPY.
You people are beautiful and understanding of what the fuck is really going on and how people actually feel about this subject. I don’t like the idea that ONLY rape victims have the right to get an abortion. The other subjects should be just as important for whatever reason. I hope there is more understanding and more beautiful people out here in the system of the U.S.
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So watch out.
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Amnesia gathering at Fanime! WE HAD A STEPHANO!!! 8D
HOLY SHIT SOMEONE ACTUALLY COSPLAYED STEPHANO
YES PERFECT COSPLAY
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ok so today at fanime
like right outside of the convention these mega christians came and started protesting against gays and how they’re trying to be something they’re not and how we’re all sinning because we’re all dressing up as things we’re not and whatever
and then gamzee got in this tiny truck and slowly rode in front of the protesters and it was glorious and was probably the best thing that happened all day
I was so there to see that! It was amazing and oh so funny. It really made my day at the con.
Omg That Gamzee was funny as hell.
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